Folks, I know I’ve talked a lot on this blog about not letting weird stuff people say on the internet get to you. Well, here we go, I have identified the weird thing a person can say that makes me very reactive: when someone says people who detransition are so rare we pretty much don’t exist.
I totally exist! Not only do I exist, but I know a lot of other detransitioned people who are also super into the existing thing!
Here you go, my real name, my real face, here’s who I am. I expect to catch massive amounts of flak for this. I expect to encounter lots of people saying enraging, ignorant things. But you know, it would’ve been helpful to me if detransitioned people had a lot more videos on youtube when I had reached the point of being done with being trans. Also would’ve been way helpful when I was super excited about taking testosterone.
If you’re a praying person, sure would appreciate you including me in your prayers. Specifically prayers to have me be my best self, to help me respond to people rather than reacting, in cultivating peace and a whole lot of understanding and compassion when people show their need through being hostile. But also not giving in to the temptation to tell gentle lies to make the hostile people feel better.
Hey, these detransitioned women also totally exist- like, every day they wake up and exist, over and over. Super crazy that we all keep doing that.